Black Opinionated Woman

S4E26 Why is everyone concerned about Draya's baby?

April 09, 2024 Black Opinionated Woman Season 4 Episode 26
S4E26 Why is everyone concerned about Draya's baby?
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S4E26 Why is everyone concerned about Draya's baby?
Apr 09, 2024 Season 4 Episode 26
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Speaker 1 (0s): Good morning bows and bow ties. So luck. I don't know why my video quality starts out so shady and then it gets better. I guess I get in a better area, but luck. Listen, I have no idea why people care about Drea. Michelle's baby. It's Drea Michelle or just Drea? Why do I think her name is Drea? Michelle. She was that woman who used to be on basketball wives, and she was kind of a dodo bird, but I also think everybody was just jealous of her because she was like gorgeous.

And I mean, she didn't do herself any papers, but I think people just want to hate on this woman. And then she exited the shell and I think she slept around, or I don't even know. But I think she has another baby by some sort of athlete. I don't remember if it's football or basketball, but she clearly likes athletes, like many of them do. And now she's pregnant by another athlete. And I'm just kinda like, I don't care.

But a lot of people seem to be really focused on it. So I'm just gonna make a comment. I'm just trying to figure out what the big deal is. I I, I mean I, so apparently she's like 39 years old and this young man that she slept around with is I think 22. Or like, he's in his early twenties. He's in the NBA and he's around the same age as her oldest son that she had when she was a teen mom. Well, she's already shown that that's what she's done.

Like, so like, look, teen moms can recover and be redemptive or have redemption and stuff like that. But you know, if you look at Dre's track record, I mean, look it, I mean she, she's doing what she's doing. Okay. But the thing is, I feel like I don't even care. I don't know why this is such a hot topic. I, I, I don't, I mean, the woman is very beautiful. I'm sure she's charming. I don't know what her, her mental game is, but apparently she's got one because she's got a baby on the way from this, this guy.

And I feel like these are two consenting adults. So everyone's like, oh yeah, she's, she's this, this guy. I'm like, this is a young man. This man is an adult. This man was not, you know, do you understand what I'm saying? Like, there's not a whole lot of outrage when some 40 something year old man wants to be with a 20 something year old woman. They marry these young women and it's like, oh, oh, not a big deal, right? And as soon as this woman decides to have a baby by an athlete, again, everyone's up in arms and I'm like, I don't care.

I'm like, she, this is what she does. I'm like, who cares? I'm like, this guy clearly liked what he saw, liked what he heard. She clearly wanted this young man, for whatever reasons. I'm like, these are two consulting adults, And. they need to stop acting like this poor guy. I'm like, no, this, this, this guy is not a victim. They have been told over and over again about groupies and how you can get caught out there and this, that, and the other chances are he also was really fascinated by the Draya girl.

And I, I don't care. I'm like, I don't care. She can have 500 babies for all I care. I'm like, why do we even care? And I think it's just because the story to me is just not even interesting. But everybody is interested in this story and I'm trying to figure out where, where is what, what's the, the common thread? Like what, what is it that that's got people up in arms? Ultimately I just feel like, look, she's gonna do what she's gonna do.

If it wasn't him, it would've been someone else. Okay? I'm sure she's a perfectly nice woman. She is also gorgeous and that is part of her arm. She's easy on the eyes and people are mad because she knows it and she can use it for her advantage. I'm not saying that's what she did, but most likely, yeah, look, let me tell you, it's not like this man doesn't know, right?

He just didn't care. He was like, well, I'm gonna taste the goods, right? It's kind of like when Michael Jordan's son was dating Larissa Pippen. Larissa is older than me and I'm 47. Why does this video look like crash? So Larissa, Larissa Pippin is older than me and she was messing around with Michael Jordan's son.

She knows what she was doing. So she bought and put together her body to to, to, you know, 'cause she's older now and this man knew she was older and can't have any more children and yet he still wanted to possibly marry her. Now I think that relationship is done. I'm just kinda like, this man is like 30 something I. think he was in his thirties. Actually, I, I can't remember. And I'm like, when you have people who are still willing to be dumb dos in their thirties, thirties or whatever, right?

I was just kinda like, this is a, this is a non-starter. These are wealthy people doing whatever they wanna do. So I'm trying to figure out why people get up in arms over all this of stuff. Now the Larissa, the Larse relationship, that's now what I understand has been dissolved with Michael Jordan's son. I, ugh, I'm sorry, I'm so tired. I can see how, what, what am I gonna say? Like I can see how that's considered messy because it's a former teammate and this, that, and the other.

But Michael Jordan has no control over what his son does that most, he can like cut off his inheritance or something. I just find that all of these people are getting upset because these women are going out there using their power to trap these young men. I don't even wanna bring the racial part into it. I think we all know what's going on and I just feel like they continue to do it. They're consenting adults. I don't feel like it's any of my business.

Like people are gonna do what they want to do and they're gonna continue to get involved. And, and I don't know, look, if Larissa could have popped out a kid, I'm sure she would have if she could have popped out a kid from Michael Jordan's son, she would've popped out twins if she could have. So I'm trying to figure out like, you guys know what time it is, you know what time it is. So everybody's getting mad at these women.

I'm like, we need to hold men accountable for their actions too. And then to be honest, I don't think there's anything to be held accountable other than maybe they should get getting married. But like, look, it's consenting adults. Why do you care if she wants to have a baby? Okay, I wanna know why this car was coming up on me. It's gonna heat. So if she wants to have a baby and at 39, I'm trying to see other than just sleeping around or whatever it is. Like, I mean, 'cause she seems to just find these athletes who are, you know, willing to just do whatever and give her a baby.

I don't know, I just feel like why are these whites behind me like crazy right now? I don't know what's going on, but it's making the video anyway. I'm just saying if she wants to do that, then she should be able to do that. Look, these athletes have been told many times what it is, Brittany Runner, you see what I'm saying?

It's, it's, I mean, come on. So why is everybody upset? Nobody gets upset when these athletes are out there horing around and having babies with everyone and you understand what I mean? Like, or when these older men are out here taking advantage of these people, of these young ladies look at all, look, isn't Russell, but Russell Simmons still in hiding in like Bali or something, you know, I'm not saying he did it, but there are concerns I think there are allegations that he is not so wasn of a guy as far as his behavior, alleged behaviors.

So I, you know, look, I I just called the way it's, I mean like, look, men are out here just running rampant, like spreading their seed everywhere and it doesn't seem to be that big of a deal. And they're not held accountable. No one says anything. When Nick Canon goes out there and whores himself, they don't, they just say like, oh, he has all these kids, but he could take care of those kids. And people are so dumb to think that like, because he has like a couple of extra coins to put together that that's taking care of children.

Children are more than just, you know, a monthly deposit. They require so much more. So when, when people try to use that as an argument, like I beg to differ, he cannot take care of his children. He can't, he can barely govern himself. So y'all leave that girl alone, she's gonna have that baby, she's gonna have that tied to this young man who has a, a gigantic financial potential.

I don't know what their true intentions are. It doesn't seem like they're looking to make something permanent. 'cause it's not like they're talking about that type of thing. They're just looking to just, she's having this baby. I'm sorry. So that's, that's, that's it. I wasn't even gonna speak on this 'cause it was just such a stupid topic, but Don don't know why everybody sees me really interested in this and I just don't think it's really all that interesting.

But like, this is gonna be wash, rinse, repeat. We're gonna see more of this. all right, all you gotta do is look around the WNBA, I mean not the W-N-B-A-I can't figure BA, you can tell that's on my brain. The NBAA bunch of young, young stupid dudes who have never been told no and who have access to so much so early and their potential is so high, they're traveling all the time.

Many of them don't know how to govern themselves. They're, they, they're, they're having relations in any port they're in. The whole thing is silly to me. So I'm like, let her have her baby, who cares? And then I saw like, I guess some article clips or whatever. Her pictures are gorgeous. So y'all stop worrying about her, her BD and go get your own life.

She's found a life for her. She knows where her bread and butter is. She knows what she's doing. And to be honest, I wouldn't be surprised if she was really, really happy to have this baby, not for financial gain. I wouldn't be surprised if at 39, I mean she's, I don't know what, what else she's got going on in her life. I don't know if she's been receiving any sort of counseling or anything, but this baby is probably a very welcomed welcome position for her.

For whatever reasons I think she's gonna love up on this baby. I do. And I, you know, I don't know what's going on with her But. anyway, you guys can be all good. Good of life. Stop worrying about the fact that she could get to young dude. all right.

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